Remembering Dr. King


Several years ago when my family was living in the Washington, D.C. area, my son Andrew was assigned a freshman history project that required him to write about several famous quotes on key monuments in the city. One of the monuments Andrew and I visited was the newly built MLK Jr. Memorial. What came as a great shock to us was not the discovery of what was included in Dr. King’s quotes over his career, but what was missing.

Click here to read this USA Today article of mine (that was published during the 50th Anniversary celebration of Dr. King’s March on Washington and his “I Have A Dream” speech) to find out what we discovered.

Wise Men and Wise Women: Epiphany and Hidden Figures


Across the Christian church today, a number of faithful believers will celebrate Epiphany.  But how many will consider the cultural similarities of this holy day to the stories featured in the national film release of Hidden Figures this weekend?

To believers in Jesus, one of the most powerful messages of Epiphany is the mercy and love demonstrated to all humanity through the revealing of the Son of God to the star-following, foreign-born wise men, who fell down and worshiped the Christ child upon finding Him.

Regardless of race, social status, or gender, God’s grace is given to all who come to him in faith in Jesus–what Manhattan pastor Tim Keller refers to as “the only hope that matters.”

To continue reading the article originally on January 6, 2017, visit

Post Election Thoughts

“We are one in the Spirit, we are one in the Lord…And we pray that all unity will one day be restored. And theyll know we are Christians by our love.”  

Hearing these words from our students each week this year at the close of chapel (based upon our theme of unity from Ephesians 4) has been a great encouragement to me. It represents the work I pray the LORD is doing in the hearts of our young people here at Central Christian School, as we seek to instill in them a passion for God, a love of Truth, and a zeal to serve.

But the events of this past week threaten this message of unity in the body of Christ. After a long, divisive and polarizing election season, we have found ourselves in a very difficult period in our nation’s history that is playing out in many parts of our lives, including in schools across the country. Central Christian School is not immune to these challenges.

In relationship to our students, many of our teachers have shared with us their intentional and thoughtful conversations they had after the elections to set expectations for Christ-like interactions when it comes to differences of opinion. Please pray with us as we continue to emphasize that, in our differences, Christ is our unifier as our rock and our foundation as the events and feelings surrounding this election season continue to unfold.

Reading news feeds and social media posts, listening to TV commentators, and talking with friends, colleagues and school parents, I have found myself counseling and listening to many who are hurt and fearful this week. I have observed two developing themes among Christians, both of which are represented in our Central Christian School community.

First, I have learned that a large part of the Christian community at Central is hurting.  They fear what is to come.  They feel isolated and confused by the outcome of the election.

Secondly, a large part of the Christian community feels judged.  They fear being labeled and the assumptions that may accompany their voting choice.

Maybe you recognize or resonate with one of these positions. Regardless, my prayer is that some part of you values and even enjoys exposure to differences.  We believe God has blessed us with diversity as a means…not an end.  Our differences are a means to bring glory to God, because as we walk together, we rub against each other, and that friction shapes us and changes us and gives us an others’ centered-orientation so that together we can impact a hurting world for Christ.

The events of this past week will undoubtedly challenge our witness for Jesus Christ –both within the school community and the greater St. Louis Community. It will require trust in God’s goodness and sovereignty rather than surrendering to fear to move toward those with whom we disagree. It will require face-to-face conversations to clarify our assumptions and understand each other’s perspectives. It will require courage and humility to heal and restore our relationships. That is the biblical principle the LORD gave us in Matthew 18—the call of a Peacemaker. And that is the witness I am encouraging all of us to model as a school community going forward.

God has blessed us with this Central community, and there are people within it with whom you can engage. I am one of them, but I am not the only one. There is growth and intimacy awaiting us, but we must be willing and loving.

Pray for us as we work with our students on how to navigate the differences they see so clearly.  We want to teach them courage but struggle to do so when we, ourselves, fear or don’t have practice exercising our courage.  Know with confidence that we stand on the call of Scripture that tells us all we need to know in regard to engaging one another:

“Finally, all of you, be like-minded, be sympathetic, love one another, be compassionate and humble.”1 Peter 3:8 

“No one should seek their own good, but the good of others.1 Corinthians 10:24 

 “Therefore encourage one another and build each other up, just as in fact you are doing.” 1 Thessalonians 5:11 

 “Carry each others burdens, and in this way you will fulfill the law of Christ.”–Galatians 6:2 

 “Therefore let us stop passing judgment on one another. Instead, make up your mind not to put any stumbling block or obstacle in the way of a brother or sister.”– Romans 14:13 

 “Learn to do right; seek justice. Defend the oppressed. Take up the cause of the fatherless; plead the case of the widow.”— Isaiah 1:17 

I pray that these words are received with the humility and heart that are behind them. God be with us during this time.




My “New” Title

St. Louis native and Nobel Prize winning author T.S. Eliot once stated, “It is self-evident that St. Louis affected me more deeply than any other environment has ever done.” I, too, can say that the LORD is using St. Louis and its people to affect and change me more than any community I have ever experienced.

When I accepted this position over two years ago, I was thrilled to lead this amazing school. Even before visiting, Central’s reputation as an academically strong and culturally diverse school made it an exciting opportunity for my family and me. Having lived all over the country, I could confidently say that I enjoyed and appreciated diversity.

I arrived in the city one month before the Ferguson conflict erupted in 2014 to lead this community. It was then that I began to realize how much I still had to learn about the impact that racial differences have had, and continue to have on our culture. The unrest in our city opened the opportunity for conversations that I’d never had before, and realizations that I’d never experienced. I was so grateful to God for opening my eyes through these encounters.

Then, in an unexpected conversation this summer, a good friend of mine revealed to me how the title “Headmaster” might be a stumbling block to our African American families. The word “master” could bring a flood of negative connotations with the cruelties of slavery.


That was humbling to learn.

I have used the title “Headmaster” for fifteen years, and this had never crossed my mind. As a matter of fact, when I was introduced to the Central Christian School community two years ago, I discussed how the title came from the British school system with the idea of a “master teacher” serving over a group of highly qualified teachers. Thus, Headmaster.

No title is worth being unnecessarily hurtful or divisive. So this year, I shared with our faculty, staff, families, and Board why I would no longer be using this title, but instead “Head of School.”

The most important concept I shared with our school community, however, was not the changing of my title. The important message of my story was that if I were not in a loving, diverse community where friends with different perspectives could gently challenge me, I would still be using a title that could impede unity in our school.

Given the headlines over the past two years—from Ferguson to Baltimore to Charleston to Dallas to the events this week, I have experienced and observed emotions ranging from hopelessness and despair, anger and frustration, sadness and grief, confusion and defensiveness, apathy and avoidance. And while this is not my first encounter with pain or controversy, something about my proximity to Jesus-followers with different perspectives and experiences than my own has made this time different. The clarity of Scripture as the foundation of a diverse, just community has never been clearer to me.

I am convinced, more than ever before, that the grace of Jesus Christ should compel the Body of Believers to pursue justice for and unity with our neighbors.

Speaking of unity, our chapel theme this year is based on the Book of Ephesians, Chapter 4. Why unity?

First of all, we believe this theme aligns well with our previous two years’ themes on Courageous Conversations in 2014-15 and what it means to be true Peacemakers in 2015-16.

Secondly, with the most recent turbulent events in our nation, we believe the body of Christian believers needs to be unified now more than ever to present the only hope that matters—Jesus Christ.

Thirdly, this election year has found the U.S. greatly divided. Consider these statistics and analysis released this summer by the Associated Press entitled “Unity Not Seen As Likely”: “Some 85% of people regard the nation as more politically divided than in the past; 80% view Americans as being greatly divided on the most important values…The time is so unstable, its impossible to see the future.”

Given the current state of our country, we chose Ephesians 4:15-16 to be our annual school verses: “Speaking the truth in love, we are to grow up in every way into him who is the head, into Christ, from whom the whole body, joined and held together by every joint with which it is equipped, when each part is working properly, makes the body grow so that it builds itself up in love.”  

My prayer is that the LORD will use our school to impact the hearts and minds of our students, faculty, staff, and families in unanticipated and palpable ways as we seek unity in the name of Jesus.  Please join us.

Student Guidelines for Texting and Social Media

Several years ago, when my oldest son Andrew turned 13, I made the decision to purchase him a cell phone.  Wanting to provide some guidelines for navigating this new world, I came across a wonderful article by Toronto Pastor Tim Challies entitled, “Solomon on Social Media.”  Building upon Tim’s (and King Solomon’s!) wisdom and insight, I put together a list that has become a guide not only for my son, but my three daughters too, as they each received their phone in 7th grade (my most recent daughter being this summer!).

As I have shared with my four children over the years, when we rely on God’s wisdom, not our own, our choices will be much more responsible. But if and when those difficult lessons come and we fail to heed Scripture’s guidelines, we must learn to accept the consequences and allow them to be equally instructive.

For that is when God’s wisdom and grace are most needed.

I hope that you will find the below list helpful, as you discuss these issues with your children as well!

Top 10 Rules to Guide your Texts, Emails and Social Media Posts

1.  Always think through what you write before you send a text/email and make a social media post.  Realize that anyone and everyone may view/read what you write!

“Do you see a man who is hasty in his words? There is more hope for a fool than for him” (Proverbs 29:20).

Corollaries to #1 (a.k.a. “The Murray Rule”):  

  • Do not email/text/post embarrassing pictures or videos of yourself or our family to other people without our permission. Once it is out there, you can never retrieve it. It may even make it to YouTube!
  • Do not forward email/text conversations with Mom or Dad without our     permission. Realize that anyone and everyone may view/read what we write!  “Honor your father and mother”—which is the first commandment with a promise”            (Ephesians 6:2).                        


2.  Build others up—do not cut them down. Not only is that biblical, but you must realize that anyone and everyone may view/read what you write!

“Do not let any unwholesome talk come out of your mouths, but only what is helpful for building others up according to their needs, that it may benefit those who listen” (Ephesians 4:29)


3.  Avoid gossipers and gossiping about others. Realize that anyone and everyone may view/read what you write!

“The words of a whisperer are like delicious morsels; they go down into the inner parts of the body” (Proverbs 29:22).


4.  Avoid spreading rumors. Don’t always believe what you read!

“Like one who binds the stone in the sling is one who gives honor to a fool” (Proverbs 26:8).


5. If someone writes something you disagree with, sometimes it is best not to respond. Don’t be afraid to seek our advice!

“Answer not a fool according to his folly, lest you be like him yourself” (Proverbs 26:4).


6.  However, if someone is spreading lies/rumors and hurting others, sometimes we need to prayerfully respond. Don’t be afraid to seek our advice!

“Answer a fool according to his folly, lest he be wise in his own eyes (Proverbs 26:5)


7.  Avoid creating problems.

Whoever digs a pit will fall into it, and a stone will come back on him who starts it rolling” (Proverbs 26:27).

 “As charcoal to hot embers and wood to fire, so is a quarrelsome man for kindling strife” (Proverbs 26:21).


8.  Avoid other people’s problems.

“Whoever meddles in a quarrel not his own is like one who takes a passing dog by the ears” (Proverbs 26:17).


9.  Don’t brag about yourself! People like humility 🙂

“Let another praise you, and not your own mouth; a stranger and not your own lips” (Proverbs 27:2).

 “One’s pride will bring him low, but he who is lowly in spirit will obtain honor” (Proverbs 29:23).


10.  Protect yourself.   Don’t give your number/information to people you don’t know!

“Watch out for false prophets. They come to you in sheep’s clothing, but inwardly they are ferocious wolves” (Matthew 5:17).

 “And the peace of God, which transcends all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus.” (Philippians 4:7)




How Treating Others As Image-Bearers Saved My Daughter’s Life

I want to take this opportunity to share with you excerpts from my recent graduation charge to our sixth graders. Given the challenges facing their generation [and now in light of the tragedies this summer], I hoped to inspire them to see the impact they can have in the world when they treat others like the image-bearers they are. 

Class of 2016, …Reflecting on our chapel theme this year from the Beatitudes, I want to share an illustration that will remind you of the importance of being peacemakers and treating others as image-bearers— regardless of our differences. Dr. Brian Lindman, a Central parent, shared the following story with me— one I later read in The Washingtonian magazine (which I share from below).¹

I hope this charge inspires you as it did me.

“In 1930, Vivien Thomas, a 19-year-old carpenter’s apprentice had his sights set on Tennessee State College and then medical school. But the [great] depression, which had halted work in Nashville, wiped out his savings and forced him to postpone college. Through a friend who worked at Vanderbilt University, Thomas learned of an opening as a [medical] laboratory assistant for a young doctor named Alfred Blaylock—who was, in his friend’s words, ‘[hard] to get along with.’ Thomas decided to take a chance, and on February 10, 1930, he walked into Blalock’s animal lab…”

“Face to face on two lab stools, each told the other what he needed. Thomas needed a job, he said, until he could enter college the next fall. Blalock…needed ‘someone in the lab whom he could teach to do anything he could do, and maybe do things he couldn’t do.’ ”

“Each man got more than he bargained for. Within three days, Vivien Thomas was performing almost as if he’d been born in the lab, doing arterial punctures on the laboratory dogs and measuring and administering anesthesia. [Amazingly] within a month, the former carpenter was setting up experiments and performing delicate and complex operations…” A carpenter performing surgical operations?

When we treat others like the image-bearers that they are, God uses us often in ways we can’t even imagine.

“By 1940, [with the help of Vivien Thomas], Dr. Blalock’s research had put him head and shoulders above any young surgeon in America. When the call came to return to his alma mater, Johns Hopkins, as surgeon-in-chief, he was able to make a deal on his own terms, and it included [a paid position for] Thomas [to work with him].”

At this point, I should mention that Mr. Vivien was African American and Dr. Blalock was Caucasian— and “they did historic things together that neither could do alone.”

“[For] Together they devised an operation to save what doctors refer to as ‘Blue Babies’—infants born with a heart defect that sends blood past their lungs—[an operation] that Vivien had worked out in the lab, long before Dr. Blalock [operated on] Eileen, the first Blue Baby.”

Before this surgical innovation, Blue Babies died not long after they were born. So it should be no surprise that “almost overnight, Operating Room 706 became ‘the heart room,’ as dozens of Blue Babies and their parents came to Hopkins from all over the United States, then from abroad, spilling over into rooms on six floors of the hospital…One after another [these] children, who had never been able to sit upright, began standing at their crib rails [no longer blue but] healthy.”

In addition to this surgical innovation, Vivien also “found a way to improve circulation in patients whose great vessels were transposed. The problem had stymied Blalock for months, and now it seemed that Thomas had solved it…

“‘Vivien, are you sure you did this?’ Vivien answered in the affirmative. After a pause [Dr. Blalock] said, ‘Well, this looks like something the LORD made.’”

When we treat others like the image-bearers that they are, God uses us often in ways we can’t even imagine.

One of your classmates turned blue 12 hours after she was born with her great heart vessels transposed. She, and thousands of babies like her, would not be here today, if Vivien Thomas and Alfred Blalock had not defied the racial prejudices and injustices of their day to develop these medical breakthroughs together.

For when men and women like Blalock and Thomas treat each other like the image-bearers that they are, God uses them in ways they can’t even imagine.

As you go forth, know you have been greatly blessed by the biblical foundation you have received at Central—echoed in your classmates Stuart, Sarah, and William’s wonderful words tonight on what it means to have a Passion for God, a Love of Truth, and a Zeal to Serve…

I conclude my charge with the challenge from Matthew 5 which directly follows the Beatitudes we learned each month in chapel this year: “You are the light of the world. A city set on a hill cannot be hidden. Nor do people light a lamp and put it under a basket, but on a stand, and it gives light to all in the house. In the same way, let your light shine before others, so that they may see your good works and give glory to your Father who is in heaven.”


P.S. For those who did not attend the graduation service, the Blue Baby with transposition of great arteries was my own 6th grade graduate, Sara Cate Murray, pictured below before her surgery and at graduation (on the right).



¹Katie McCabe, “Like Something the Lord Made,” The Washingtonian, August 1989.

2016 Central Leadership Forum


This past June, Central Christian School parents J.D. and Christan Perona, Vanessa Hawkins, and I had the opportunity to lead 15 rising ninth graders on an eight-day leadership trip to Gettysburg and Washington, D.C.

The amazing journey was a culmination of the inaugural Central Leadership Forum (CLF), which began in February with 12 two-hour weekly sessions on what it means to be an image-bearer of God in how we view ourselves, others, and the world around us.

I would love to share with your our journey to Gettysburg and DC in a diary format. I pray that you will be encouraged as I was by what the LORD did in the lives of these young people

Day 1 (Saturday)

We spent 18 hours on the bus ride from St. Louis to Gettysburg, PA. It was a great time for the students to bond and get to know one another!

Day 2 (Sunday)

We started the day with “church” at Middle Creek Lodge—a time of worship, individual (private) prayers of confession, and Scripture study. Pulling from passages in Matthew 14 and Hebrews 10 and 12, students were challenged to keep their focus on Christ alone rather than letting culture pull us to and fro. We were reminded to seek to live in community and understand our need for one another.

Gettysburg Visitors Center

We began our tour of Gettysburg by spending time at the Visitors Center. We watched a New Birth of Freedom (a film narrated by Morgan Freeman) before experiencing the Cyclorama, the nation’s largest oil painting. The students were amazed not only by the battlefield stories but by the painting itself. We then heard a guide speak on what it was like to be a Civil War soldier–he touched on some of the mental, physical, emotional, and social stresses and grief of being a soldier (pre-war, during battle, and post-war).

Back at the Lodge

After dinner, we gathered for our first group session and watched Part 1 of the film Gettysburg to prepare us for our tour of the battlefields. We had a great discussion processing not only what we learned today but also unpacking what seemed to be racial biases of the Visitors Center presenter. I was able to encourage the students to not just repeat facts learned but to be critical thinkers—particularly when it comes to seeing things through others’ point of view.  This was an eye-opening time for our Caucasian students as they got a small window into the world their African American friends experience.

Day 3 (Monday)

Today was our “outside” day, for we visited the locations of the three days of fighting (July 1-3, 1863) during the Battle of Gettysburg. We envisioned what it was like to be a soldier in the exact surroundings, as I explained the strategies that helped the Union defeat the Confederates.  I explained how this was a pivotal battle which changed the momentum of the Civil War and led to the end of slavery.

From Culp’s Hill to Little Round Top to Pickett’s Charge—they learned how the decisions, actions, and character of a leader define the probability of success or failure—from Confederate Generals Lee and Longstreet to Union Officers Hancock, Meade, and Chamberlain.  One of our African American students was deeply moved by the loss of life–sharing with the group “how amazing it was to think about the thousands of men who gave their lives so African Americans could be free.”

We particularly focused on Col. Joshua Chamberlain (a professor from Bowdoin College in Maine)—whose bravery and brilliant thinking allowed the 20th Maine to keep the Confederate army from outflanking the Union at Little Round Top.

Similar to last night, after dinner we had another group session where we focused on leadership and how leadership often calls for courage in the face of adversity—particularly the challenges they will face in high school, as they seek to stand for Christ and glorify God in all they do in their respective schools.

Day 4 (Tuesday)

We began our day debriefing Remember the Titans, a film many kids watched last night during free time–particularly the scene when the football players are at Gettysburg Cemetery reflecting on “how we are still fighting the same battles today.”  The students are growing in their ability to be reflective in front of each other.

After a devotional, we viewed and discussed Pickett’s Charge in the film Gettysburg. (These movie scenes were filmed on the exact ground we walked yesterday!)

Gettysburg National Cemetery

We then left for the Gettysburg National Cemetery, where we read numerous tombstones of those who gave their lives. Lincoln’s idea of a nation “conceived in Liberty, and dedicated to the proposition that all men are created equal,” assumed a new meaning to our CLF students as they stood in the Gettysburg Cemetery, surrounded by markers of hundreds of soldiers, and took turns reciting lines from Lincoln’s 272-word speech.

We also discussed how the magnitude of devastation during this battle was not lost on Abraham Lincoln, as he memorialized the dead in his concluding words of the Gettysburg Address: “We here highly resolve that these dead shall not have died in vain—that this nation, under God, shall have a new birth of freedom.”

Washington, DC

After our time in the cemetery, we drove an hour and 30 minutes to Washington, DC.  What a great introduction our students had to DC by starting at the Washington Monument–where we could all the major sites of the National Mall.   We spent a fair amount of time at the World War II Memorial before heading to our first appointment at the Center of Neighborhood Enterprise (CNE) with CNE Founder and Director, Bob Woodson. A MacArthur Genius Fellowship and Presidential Citizens Medal recipient, Mr. Woodson shared about the amazing impact the CNE is having in the inner cities of America—reclaiming lives and restoring communities in the name of Jesus Christ. A man of great faith in Christ, Mr. Woodson exudes humility even though he has advised various presidents and currently advises Speaker of the House, Paul Ryan. The students were so blessed to dialogue with Mr. Woodson and hear his uncommon wisdom. He is doing amazing work in some of the schools across the country that many view hopeless.

We concluded our time that evening at the 4H Conference Center, as we debriefed the day.

Day 5 (Wednesday)

Our morning began at Starbucks in Union Station. We then went to the Russell Senate Office Building to participate in Missouri Mornings with Senator Roy Blunt. In addition to meeting the senator, we spoke at length with two of his interns. Both young men were engaging, inspiring, and treated our students so well. It was especially exciting to learn that one was from Ferguson and grew up in the neighborhood across the street from the First Baptist Church of Ferguson (where Central Christian School holds its spring musical every year!) These two young men took us to see the Senate floor and were teachers at heart, explaining and educating all along the way. They were going to give us a full tour of the Capital Building, but it was closed to visitors due to today’s visit from the Prime Minister of India. (We returned to complete the tour on Friday.)

From Senator Blunt’s team, we met with U.S. Senate Chaplain Barry Black. He was a highlight for many of the students, for he was engaging, funny, deep, and relevant. Chaplain Black encouraged us to grow in wisdom, develop our physical bodies, grow spiritually, and grow socially. He was a man of great wisdom and was very motivational. Attributing his Christian education to changing his life and preparing him for his future roles in the Navy and D.C., Chaplain Black shared his amazing personal testimony of being born in the poorest neighborhood in Baltimore to rising to his current position today.

After eating lunch in the Rayburn Building, we made our way to Congressman William Lacy Clay’s office, who represents several areas of the St. Louis region. He was warm and candid, and we were grateful for his hospitality. He was accompanied by three young interns who stayed and conversed with us a bit when Rep. Clay had to go and vote.

After a visit to the Supreme Court, we headed to the Heritage Foundation. Tim Goeglein, the chief lobbyist for Focus on the Family, wonderfully engaged our students on how to live as a Christian in today’s tough political climate.

We had our evening gathering at Fourth Presbyterian Church, and after processing all of today’s conversations with leaders, we challenged the students to stand up for their faith even when their peers disagree with them.

Day 6 (Thursday)


We began our day at the Newseum. Most of our time was spent at the 9/11 exhibit, the Berlin Wall exhibit, and a private class about the Civil Rights Movement.

Fox News 

From the Newseum we headed to Fox News studios, where Shannon Bream was our host. Mrs. Bream is their Supreme Court reporter and also an anchor on the weekends. She is a strong Christian and engaged our students with candor and intentionality. She emphasized the importance of humility and praying against an ego. A surprise treat at Fox News was being INSIDE the studio while Cal Thomas was being interviewed live about his recent challenging interview with Donald Trump!

Cal Thomas 

I had arranged for Cal to speak to us this afternoon, and it was amazing to experience his live interview two hours prior to talking with him! The LORD works in mysterious ways! Cal emphasized humility, as well, encouraging our students to avoid arrogance by seeking advice from those who have gone before us.

Both Shannon and Cal shared personal struggles in their careers and the reality of God’s hand leading and directing their paths and using their gifts and talents for His glory!


That afternoon, CLF students visited the Jefferson Memorial, the Lincoln Memorial, and the MLK, Jr. Memorial consecutively—pondering the biblical truth these leaders struggled to realize: the ideal that we are all image-bearers of God.

CLF students stood on the steps in front of the Lincoln Memorial where Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr. reminded the nation that it still did not offer full freedom to all citizens.   In his “I Have a Dream” speech, Dr. King declared, “I have a dream that one day this nation will rise up [and] live out the true meaning of its creed: ‘We hold these truths to be self-evident, that all men are created equal.’”

Sarah Moore

A highlight at the MLK Memorial was meeting Sarah Moore. The cousin of one of our students, she works as the Head of Development for Americans for Prosperity and oversees a team of 35 people at the age of 27. She gave us practical advice about leadership, encouraging our students to have humility (again!) and to live grateful lives. Sarah is a strong Christian, too, and spoke about how her faith shapes her work in DC.

Dede Winkfield

After dinner, we met with Dede Winkfield, a good friend and former teacher at Fourth Presbyterian School. Dede’s family was very close to Dr. Martin Luther King’s family, for her mom was Dr. King’s assistant. Her mother oversaw his press relations, as well. Dede spoke for over an hour about growing up during the Civil Rights Movement and her personal memories of Dr. King.  Their family traveled with the leaders of the Civil Rights movement, as they went from town to town with Dr. King.  One of the most fascinating stories Dede shared was how Dr. King interacted with the leaders’ children–singing songs and reading Bible stories with them before bedtime. She recollected sitting in his lap some evenings, as he would read to the children.  It was a side of Dr. King none of our group knew about.  Her time with our students was invaluable, and we are so grateful for her honesty and vulnerability.

Day 7 (Friday)

We began our day with Congressman Robert Aderholt from Alabama. He cared so well for us (considering we were a group from Missouri and not Alabama.)  Congressman Aderholt took us down to the House floor and allowed us to sit in the seats typically occupied by his colleagues. When our students arrived on the floor of the House chamber, they were surprised to see the national motto “In God We Trust” in gold letters above the Speaker’s chair (not something you see during the State of the Union Address). Furthermore, they viewed a marble relief of Moses hanging opposite the Speaker’s chair—the only full-face portrait of historical lawgivers found on the walls of the House chamber. Finally, our students learned that the House and Senate have chaplains—both of whom open each session in prayer!

After the Capitol, we met former Fourth Presbyterian School history teacher and friend, Susan Scola, at the National Gallery. She gave us a Race & History Tour, and engaged the students amazingly—concluding with the Shaw Memorial, which memorializes the 54th Massachusetts (the all-black regiment featured in the movie Glory!)

That afternoon, we returned to the Newseum and attended a 4D movie depicting important events throughout history and how the press reported them.

We also walked to the White House and later dined at one of Bobby Flay’s restaurants (Flay is a Food Network icon). Back at the 4H Conference Center, we debriefed the week together, and everyone shared 1) their favorite place visited and 2) their favorite person to meet this past week.

Day 8 (Saturday)

We boarded the bus and made the long journey home to St. Louis a fully bonded group.

What a blessing to see our students come together so well! I pray that the CLF Class of 2016 will long remember the deep faith, courage, and leadership they witnessed—both past and present—on this journey. My prayer is that God will continue to use the moments and revelations from this trip—reinforcing St. Paul’s challenge to the church of Galatia, “There is neither Jew nor Greek, slave nor free, male nor female, for you are all one in Christ Jesus.” For as they apply this truth as image-bearers of God, they will be equipped to engage their generation for Jesus Christ.